Who is doing and Who is it for ? Somatic Consent is a framework to separate doing from giving and show deeper levels of receiving. It shows clearly who is doing the action and who it is for. This stucture got developed by analyzing the 3 minute game, which consists of two questions: “How do you want me to touch you for 3 minutes?” and “How do you want to touch me for 3 minutes?” In these two questions are 4 different dynamics which create the 4 Engagement Zones. It is these two questions and the response that create the Somatic Consent, Engagement System.